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Kelly Wearstler Rocks Dallas’ Forty Five Ten

The latest design icon, Kelly Wearstler, has been on my radar for almost a decade. I remember hearing about the Playboy bunny-turned-decorator and feeling quite smug…not just anyone can be a designer, right?  I am sure I am not the only one that underestimated this woman- her beauty, sensational style, successful husband and darling sons make it a little hard to like her! Well, my quick assumptions about Kelly’s talent was incorrect. This woman has proven herself…she has become a power player in not only interiors, but in the tough world of fashion as well. And with two brave seasons on Bravo’s reality show, Top Design, Kelly Wearstler [Interior Design (KWID)] is becoming a household name. However, I was still not completely sold. So, when the decadent boutique, Forty Five Ten, announced a collaboration and a personal visit, I was thrilled. The opportunity to meet Kelly, on my own turf, would be the true test.

Dallas welcomed Kelly with an amazing cocktail party. We can always count on FFT’s owner, Brian Bolke, and his team to create a true event out of what could be an ordinary occasion. (You can read about the cool guests and other details on one of my favorite blogs, PinkMemo) With libation in hand, I quickly took in the KWID delights and air-kissed my way to the line forming near Kelly. There she was…as tiny as she is mighty. I eavesdropped on her conversations with guests and could hear, right away, that this native South Carolina girl was open and easy going. Eventually, it was my turn. Kelly was simply delightful- the real deal. My skepticism diminished and my devotion remains!

PinkMemo founder, Max Trowbridge, Kelly Wearstler and Shelly Rosenberg

I am intrigued with all of the “cross-over artists” these days. You know, the country singers that go into pop music and fragrance or fashion houses, like Gucci and Fendi, designing everything from cars to sofas. Kelly is a wonderful example of the resurgence of the renaissance persona- where ambitious people are applauded for trying out different facets of their personalities and talents. Being that very type of woman, I am thrilled at the prospect of being considered well-rounded (even visionary!) versus flaky or unable to commit to just one thing. Let’s think out of the box, shall we? The following photo exemplifies this innovative way of looking at the world. This wallpaper, of Kelly’s design, is daring in composition, color and scale and is one of the clever products that has put her on the map. A favorite pattern of mine, I was impressed to see it replicated on the CD cover for the evening’s set list, composed by the vivacious DJ Lucy Wruebel. Each guest nabbed a custom sound track, on the way, home as a parting gift.

Brass is back in a big way and Kelly uses this warm metal in most of her home accessories and fashion pieces. I love the spiny Kaleidoscope  sculptures, the smooth and weighty metal links and the sleek clutches (one of them is on my Mothers’ Day wish list)! There are so many other fabulous things to see, that you simply must take some time to research her wares: fabrics and wallcovering for Schumacher & Co., bedding through Sferra, rugs via the Rug Company, china for Pickard, and home accessories or clothing with Bergdorf Goodman, Forty Five Ten and Neiman Marcus.

You must not forget her design bibles! Each book is absolute eye candy, full of inspiration for us Kelly Wearstlers-in-training! Find Modern Glamour, Domocilium Decoratus and Hue at Amazon!

How to Decorate & Live Well: The Perfectly Imperfect Home

Finally, a behind-the-scenes directive to achieve the perfection we crave!  Deborah Needleman, founding editor of the dearly missed Domino Magazine, has written a charming how-to, illuminating ways to add soul to our home…without pressure. We don’t need to strive for rock-star status! Needleman explains, “The point of decorating, as far as I can tell, is to create the back-ground for the best life you can have.”

 This new definition of perfection is not all about the glam- it’s about personal comfort.  She says,  “Luxury cannot be defined by expense or by grandeur,” and believes that “style is luxury, and luxury is simply what makes you happy.” The author conveys that the out-dated concept of ‘perfection’ often equals conformity.  Her permission to follow our individual bliss is a refreshing message.

Most interior designers will agree that injecting your own personality into furnishings and décor makes for the most interesting rooms. However, Needleman notes, “Embracing imperfection in a home does not mean that any-thing goes.” She urges us to “aim for beauty, tempered by reality.” Structured steps, to achieve the right foundation, are included in every chapter.

The most important element to a successful interior is how one experiences it. How does it feel? This easy-read guide also includes tips to engage each of our senses with comfortable furnishings and fabrics, appropriate lighting, curious accessories and fragrant flowers. She understands too that “life can be messy,” and even when every decision has been carefully made, she encourages us to leave room for the surprising or unexpected.

The Perfectly Imperfect Home delightfully reminds us that it’s okay for our homes to be all about us. Create an environment that is life enhancing- “every decision should comfort and uplift.” Secure a copy before you begin your Spring preparations. Not only will you wow the in-laws, but you’ll have a true haven for the lazy days of summer! Purchase is easy on Amazon.com.